I was too late for those Seventies consciousness-raising groups, where women went round in the circle, telling their stories and being listened to. If I ever tried to take Scarlett to such a group, she'd be bored out of her mind and probably cause a riot, but sometimes I think she and Melanie and Greer and Isadora and Mira are my group, my circle. They helped me, anyway, see that part of being able to, as Nora Ephron so brilliantly put it, "be the heroine of your life, not the victim" is not allowing anyone else to define you, w
I was too late for those Seventies consciousness-raising groups, where women went round in the circle, telling their stories and being listened to. If I ever tried to take Scarlett to such a group, she'd be bored out of her mind and probably cause a riot, but sometimes I think she and Melanie and Greer and Isadora and Mira are my group, my circle. They helped me, anyway, see that part of being able to, as Nora Ephron so brilliantly put it, "be the heroine of your life, not the victim" is not allowing anyone else to define you, w